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COMING SOON
Table of Contents
1. Connections
ON YOUR LIFE AND VITAL RELATIONSHIPS
ON YOUR LIFE AND RACE
ON YOUR LIFE AND THIS AND THAT
EXCERPT
Preface
I wrote Letters to Young Black Men out of two motivations: First, the Lord
impressed upon my heart to write this book because of the apparent great need among
young black men in our community for Godly, loving, fatherly, advice and encouragement
while on their journey in this life. I had a burden on my heart for my "kinsmen
according to the flesh."
It disturbed me to see so many young black men messing up their lives so early in
life, simply because they were not firmly guided in the right direction. So by the
leading of the Lord, I decided to put pen to paper in hopes that God would use it
to at least "save some."
I believe that the written word is still one of the most effective ways to reach people
in a more concrete and permanent way. God could have written His Word in the sky,
but He chose to record all His Words in a Book—the Bible. Note what author, Bud Gardner,
said:
"When you speak your words echo only across the room
The second reason why I wrote Letters to Young Black Men is because I am
a child of the early sixties. What I mean by that is, I was born in the early sixties—arguably
one of the most exciting periods of our American history. Indeed, in the words of
Charles Dickens: "It was the best of times; it was the worst of times." For black
people there could be no truer statement. Many agree that while we as a people were
making major "strides toward freedom", freeing ourselves from the awful Jim Crow era
and beginning to take our rightful place in American society, we began to lose some
other important things, such as the good old fashioned way of raising our children,
which included physical chastisement for doing wrong, and an emphasis on virtue and
doing the right thing. In addition to that, when so many doors to employment opportunities
began to swing open for our parents and grandparents, many naturally took on the mentality:
"My children won’t go through what I went through. They will have many of the things
I did not have while I was growing up."
No one can blame them for that mentality. Coming out of what they came out of, anybody
would have done the same. However, the results are still, none-the-less damaging,
and because of that natural mentality, we have a generation of young people, who,
for the most part: lack character, are materialistic, do not carry the values of their
forefathers, and do not respect their parents, or anyone else for that matter. Our
community has suffered many casualties and losses, and has planted seeds of destruction
and pain that are immeasurable and that will probably take a generation to overcome.
These are the things that motivated me to write Letters to Young Black Men and
now, Mo’ Letters to Young Black Men. However, I did not write these books
as an end in themselves. I wrote these books for all young black men, but I wrote
them primarily for the young black men who have faced some disadvantages in their
young life, for I am convinced that the young life is the most important part of life.
I wrote this book for the young black man who has no father, or who has a weak father;
for the young black man who has no mother, or who has a mother whose priorities are
out of order. I believe that if things are not done right in a person’s childhood,
it does not mean that he or she cannot cope with life when he or she gets older.
However, there will be gaps in that person’s life and those gaps will appear under
pressure. These books are an attempt to help fill in some of those gaps in the lives
of these young men. As I said before, I didn’t write these books as an end in themselves.
I wrote these books to serve as a ramp which can get you on the right freeway—the
freeway toward greater success and productivity in this life.
—Daniel Whyte III
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